Social Issues in Middle School

Middle school students have a lot of ups and downs with their friends.  They often leave home with one “best friend” and return home the same afternoon with a different “best friend”.  Help your child understand that people are unique and have differences of opinion.  Friends may even become angry at each other, but that does not have to mean that the friendship is over.  Remind your child that one problem does not have to end a relationship.  Teach your child the value of compromise and when it is appropriate to end a friendship.  Middle school students have to learn that being “best friends” isn’t always smooth sailing. 

Middle school students are faced with positive and negative peer pressure.  Help your child maintain a positive self-concept and to use their influence to inspire others to do the right thing.  Reinforce with your student that our differences are what make us unique.  While most middle school students want to be different, they are more likely to conform to the values of the group if they are not self-confident.  Know the group of friends your student has acquired.  Role-play situations with your child and help them determine solutions that are in line with your family values.  Give your child permission to use you as an excuse when faced with situations involving negative peer pressure.  Knowing that you are always there for them will create a safety net for your student.

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